Getting kicked while you’re down
Depression is not a joke. If your spouse admits to feeling depressed, it’s can seem like it’s your job as a husband or wife to pull them out of the seemingly never-ending spiral of despair. This gut-wrenching feeling can be compounded after losing your job and a sibling at the same time, which is what she experienced.
However, her husband wasn’t the helpful man she hoped he would be. After allowing her to wallow in sorrow, he decided that he had enough. He got mad at her for feeling depressed, as if she could just fix herself without help from a psychiatrist or the man who swore would be with her, through thick and thin.