Love of his life
Putting each other first in a marriage is important; you need to know that you are each other’s most important person. Unless you have pets, it seems, and then all bets are off. Your little, or large, fluffball is likely to take first place in the mind of your partner and probably yourself.
It can still come as a surprise, though. For example, this woman was pleased that her husband was making her something. How kind and useful! Until it turned out that when he was talking about his Queen, he actually meant the cat. It is a cute bed and the cat looks very comfy in it.