Be Reasonable!
When you reach your 30s or 40s, finding someone suitable to date becomes more difficult. Most of the people at this age are either married or in a serious relationship. Which makes finding a decent partner a tough job for someone who is still single.
Even with the difficulty to find someone at all, men prefer to date younger women rather than older ones. Stop looking for young ladies and start looking for those that match your age and personality. Men in their 30s and 40s must recognize that the time for dating younger is over and what they need is someone like Anastasia.