Keeping the spark alive in a marriage is important over time. You can send each other loving messages, or surprise your spouse with a present or trip away. Or you could work to spice things up in the bedroom.
What your wife really means, when she wants you to do something nice for her, is definitely that you should do some vacuuming. Or load the dishwasher, or take out the garbage, or put away the laundry. That’s the secret: having less housework to do reignites the spark, I promise!