We Are Not the Same
Doesn’t it feel like the only way you can go out with friends is if you invite them out? If you didn’t ask, they wouldn’t even bother asking you to come along. There are actually friend groups like this, and to the people of a friend group that indirectly shun another member, they’re the worst of society.
This person came up with a pretty clever meme to describe how the dynamics of their friendship work. The OP will go all-out to please their friends by baking them the best-looking birthday cake possible. Meanwhile, the friends don’t even bother half-butting their way to come up with a decent cake for the OP’s birthday.