I think it is not as straightforward as you make it out to be.
You, as a woman, might find yourself in the unusual position of having to explain to someone else something that you have personally experienced. This could happen if you find yourself in a relationship with another person who is also a woman.
What would it be like to hear about the labor and delivery process from someone else after you’ve already been through it yourself? Even if they were unaware of your history, the fact that you were there with your child would make it difficult for them to consider such a possibility.