Important Person
The most important thing to learn from this is that no one should get too big for their boots before they know who they are up against. Either give yourself permission to be too positive, or don’t. There’s no bad thing about being very sure of yourself, so there’s no reason to feel bad about showing it off. But you completely miss the point when you put yourself and your pride ahead of other people.
Men have said they like “little gray-haired women” so many times that it’s impossible to count and worthless to put a price on it. Even if it comes as a surprise, it is always satisfying to see spoiled brats get what they deserve. Because of this, you must treat everyone at the table with respect and fairness, because you never know who might turn out to be an important part of the whole.