#10: No More Mr. Nice Guy
If you’re a lady, there’s a good chance that at some point in your life, you have met a Nice Guy. I’m not talking about a guy who’s nice; those are great. I mean a Nice Guy in the way that people mean it when they tell dating horror stories: a guy who was nice to a girl only because he expects that she will date or sleep with him in return, and when it doesn’t work out that way, you quickly find out they’re not actually nice at all.
I’m sure it can happen the other way as well, where a girl is the culprit. We don’t know which one this writer is. But either way, this is a really important lesson for anyone to learn: if you’re only a nice person to someone if you’re hoping they’re going to sleep with you, then you’re not a nice person.