Yes, You Got It Right!
We are concerned about his health and sincerely hope he does not have any significant issues. Both his sense of humor and his need to verbally attack his ex-girlfriend is in fine working order. His ex-girlfriend is the target of his verbal attacks when we reflect on a previous romantic partner.
Some of our most enduring images of that person may be colored by the terrible things they said to us during our time together. When someone you care about says something painful, it might be difficult to forget what they said. Always remember to keep a level mind. Everyone in this room is aware of the fact that you are a courageous individual.