Canceling plans
When you are an adult and you move somewhere new, it can be difficult to make new friends. Usually, everyone has their old friends from work or from high school that they still talk to and have good relationships with. But here you come to a new place and need to do everything from scratch.
It is never easy and finally, when you run into someone you could definitely have a friendship with, you find yourself being lazy about it. You cancel or avoid making plans with them because you just don’t want to go through the process of getting to know someone all over again.