Just like in any other relationship, there can be moments when the two people’s personalities and tastes do not mesh. In the context of a stepparent/stepchild relationship, this may be very challenging.
However, this doesn’t indicate that the step-parent doesn’t have a deep affection for the kid. However, as one stepparent has learned the hard way, it can make things extremely difficult. We can only hope that the stepparent does not attempt to mold the child and instead accepts her as she is.