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Tricky Methods to Get Teens to Talk to You

May 19, 2022 by Veronica Phillips

With technology becoming more and more prevalent in our lives, it’s no wonder that parents are having a harder time communicating with their teenagers. Many teens spend hours upon hours on their phones or devices, and it can be difficult to get them to talk to you about anything else.

In this blog post, we will discuss some tricky methods that you can use to get your teen to communicate with you.

Reverse It

One method you can use is what we call the “reverse psychology” method. With this method, you act like you don’t want to talk to your teen, and they will often times come to you wanting to talk.

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Get out the Bribes

Another method is the “bribe” method, where you offer your teen something in exchange for talking to you. This could be something as simple as allowing them to have more screen time if they talk to you for a certain amount of time.

Let Them Start

You can also try the “let them lead” method, where you let your teen choose the topic of conversation. This can be done by asking them open-ended questions that require more than a one-word answer.

Listen Actively

You can try the “be a good listener” method. This one is pretty self-explanatory – simply listen to your teen when they want to talk, and don’t interrupt them. Allow them to fully express themselves, and show that you are interested in what they have to say.

Be Patient

Being patient is key when trying to get your teen to talk to you. Resist the urge to interrupt them or try to steer the conversation in a certain direction. Instead, simply listen to them and let them talk.

This will show that you are interested in what they have to say, and it may encourage them to open up more in the future.

Use Tech to Your Advantage

Another tip is to use technology to your advantage. If your teen is constantly on their phone, try using that as a way to connect with them.

You can do this by sending them text messages or leaving them notes on their device. You can also try using social media to connect with them, but be sure to respect their privacy.

Be Creative

Finally, be creative in your methods. If you feel like you’ve tried everything and nothing is working, try thinking outside the box.

You could try writing a letter to your teen, or even starting a conversation through music or movies. Whatever you do, just be sure to be patient and respectful, and you’ll be sure to get your teen talking in no time.

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