Plan B
Not everyone has to approve your spouse, and that’s just fine. You might find the one you love, but your family doesn’t feel the same. It’s a challenging situation. But, the situation gets worse when the family spells it out to everyone at the wedding. The brides’ sister and father went on to spell it out at the wedding.
They said their house is always available if things don’t work out with the groom later on. That’s just kind of inappropriate. The bride must not have known how to react to that, while the groom must have been in shock.