Jess is inebriated
When you’re intoxicated, you’re not yourself. You are sometimes (but not always) a better version of yourself. Let’s take Jess as an example. If that isn’t self-care, we don’t know what is. Her drunk self made lunch for her sober self, and if that isn’t self-care, we don’t know what is.
But the problem about Drunk Jess is that she doesn’t think things through because, well, she’s drunk. Her good intentions, on the other hand, are something we can respect.