Our hunch is that it was about you.
Please accept my apologies; she was referring to you specifically. If that’s the case, she may have resigned her job, renamed herself, and relocated to a new nation because she felt ashamed about sending you a text that was intended for someone else. A second date with this guy may not be a good idea if the woman in question is having such a hard time getting enthusiastic, so don’t say yes and then back out. Cowardice is a choice.
Look into methods to be more charming if you are the one who received this message. It’s possible to pull it off!