We Wouldn’t Have Been As Outraged, But We’d Have Behaved Similarly
While in high school or college, it’s possible to borrow books from your fellow students. The family member will be able to benefit from any notes that you left in the book, which will save you a lot of money.
It’s a bit excessive, though, to require them to travel to you in order to provide it. Our own reactions would be exactly the same if it were us in this person’s shoes. We may not have been as enraged as we were, but we would have behaved in the same manner.